Her Game Guide — For the Love of Her Game
Research-backed · Built for grassroots coaches

Your girls deserve a coach who gets them.

Most coaching resources are built for boys. Her Game Guide is the series that fills the gap — ten books covering every stage of girls' and women's football, from first kick to senior game.

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The problem in numbers
26.8%
of girls leave football every single year
the rate boys drop out — through adolescence
1 in 2
girls are out of sport by age 13

They're not leaving because they stopped loving the game. They're leaving because something in their experience of it stopped working.

The Problem

You're doing everything right.
But it's not built for her.

Girls aren't boys. They develop differently — physically, psychologically, and socially. A coaching approach designed for boys will miss them in three ways at once.

External

The wrong warm-up. The wrong feedback. The wrong format.

Girls face a 2–3× higher ACL risk from age 12. Puberty hits two years earlier and without the testosterone surge that stabilises boys. Most coaching courses don't mention any of it.

Internal

"Why does she seem disengaged? What am I missing?"

Girls process error differently. They personalise criticism, ruminate on mistakes, and withdraw when the social environment feels unsafe. You can be an excellent coach and still lose her — without knowing why.

Philosophical

She deserves coaching that actually understands her.

2.7 million girls play football in England. The resources available to the coaches who serve them haven't kept up. That's not acceptable. Her Game Guide exists because it needs to change.

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The real villain: coaching resources built for boys

The problem isn't the coaches. The problem is that almost every resource, course, and manual in grassroots football was designed with a male player as the default. Her Game Guide was built from scratch with girls at the centre — because that's what she deserves.

Why Trust Her Game Guide

We coach girls too.
We know what this is like.

Her Game Guide was built by a grassroots coach who has sat exactly where you're sitting — staring at a session plan written for boys, trying to make it work for a group of girls who needed something completely different.

Every book is grounded in real peer-reviewed research, built around the FA Future Fit pathway, and written for the pitch — not the classroom.

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Research-backed Every claim sourced from peer-reviewed sports science, developmental psychology, and FA guidance.
FA Future Fit aligned Built alongside the biggest overhaul of grassroots football in a generation — from 3v3 to senior football.
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Written for real coaches Plain English. Practical tools. No jargon — just what you need for Tuesday evening.

"Finally a resource that actually talks about coaching girls as girls — not just a repackaged boys' manual. I wish I'd had this when I started."

Sarah M. — Grassroots Coach, U10 Girls
2.7m
Girls now playing football in England
10
Books — Play Phase to senior football
How It Works

Three steps to coaching
with confidence.

You don't need to read everything at once. Start where your coaching is today and build from there.

1

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Start with the free five-point resource — research-backed things every girls' football coach should know. No cost, no commitment.

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2

Find your book

Pick the book that matches where your coaching is right now — by age group, format, or stage. Every book stands alone.

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3

Coach with confidence

Session plans, drill banks, research, and toolkit resources — everything ready to use next session.

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5 Things Every Girls' Football Coach Should Know

A free, research-backed one-pager from the Her Game Guide series. No fluff — just five things that will change how you coach this week.

  • Why the relationship comes before everything else
  • The dropout cliff — and what coaches can actually do
  • What puberty does to movement, and why it isn't regression
  • Why girls stay for belonging, not just the game
  • The feedback switch that changes everything

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The Full Series

One book for every
stage of her game.

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01
All Ages

The First Whistle

Getting into girls' coaching

Foundations, mindset, and what girls actually need from you before you think about tactics.

02
All Ages

Future Fit: The New Game

The FA pathway, for girls

The biggest overhaul of grassroots football in a generation — explained for coaches of girls.

03
U4–U6

Her First Play

Pre-football foundations

What girls aged 4–6 actually need before they step onto a pitch — and why Play Phase matters more for girls.

04
U7 · 3v3

The First Kick

Coaching girls at under-7

The most important session you will ever run. The entry point into football, built for girls.

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U8–9 · 5v5

Finding Her Feet

Coaching girls at under-9

Rapid technical growth and the first real emergence of self-awareness in sport.

Coming Soon
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U10–11 · 7v7

Growing Her Game

Coaching girls at under-11

Tactical thinking emerges — and so does a sense of self. The stage where coaches have the most influence.

Coming Soon
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U12–13 · 9v9

Her Changing Game

Coaching girls at under-13

The most critical stage. Puberty. Dropout risk. The book you can't afford not to read.

Coming Soon
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U14–16 · 11v11

Her Full Game

Coaching girls at under-16

The full game. The full person. The full responsibility. Mid-adolescence demands a different kind of coaching.

Coming Soon
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Senior · Open Age

Her Game, Her Way

Coaching senior women

Adult women bring their full lives to the pitch. Their history, their bodies, their confidence — all of it arrives with them.

Coming Soon
10
All Ages · GK

Her Last Line

The complete GK guide

The most overlooked player in girls' football — finally given the resource she deserves.

Coming Soon
The Stakes

Without this,
she'll quietly leave.

Dropout doesn't usually happen loudly. There's no big argument, no dramatic moment. She just stops coming. And if you ask her why, she probably won't be able to tell you.

Most coaches who lose girls don't know what they missed. That's not a failure of character. It's a failure of the resources available to them.

  • She personalises every correction — public feedback costs more than you think
  • She loses her social connection to the group and the exit door opens
  • Puberty changes her body and nobody explains what that means for football
  • She compares herself to who she was six months ago and feels like she's failing
With Her Game Guide
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She stays in the game

You'll know the signals, have the tools, and build the environment that keeps her coming back week after week.

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She develops with confidence

Physically, technically, and socially — her development is coached deliberately, not accidentally.

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You coach with certainty

No more adapting boys' resources and hoping they fit. Everything built specifically for her game.

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She loves the game for life

Girls who have a positive experience at 9–11 are three times more likely to still be playing at 16. The work you do now is the work that matters most.

Inside Every Book

Everything you need.
Nothing you don't.

Every Her Game Guide book follows the same structure. Once you've used one, you know how to use them all.

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11 Chapters

Every dimension of coaching that age group — physical, psychological, tactical, social, and safeguarding.

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4 Session Plans

Complete, ready-to-run training sessions designed around the development stage — not lifted from boys' football.

Full Drill Bank

Drills and practices aligned with what girls at that stage actually need — technically, physically, and emotionally.

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4 Toolkit Resources

Printable, practical tools — player reviews, communication guides, session planners — built for grassroots reality.

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Full Glossary

Every technical and developmental term explained — use the language confidently with parents, clubs, and the FA.

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Research & References

Every book cites the science behind it — so you know this isn't guesswork, and you can go deeper if you want to.

AI Coaching Assistant — Live Now

Got a question at 10pm
on a Tuesday? Ask Ewie.

Ewie is the Her Game Guide AI assistant — a coaching companion who knows the full series and is always available. Ask her anything about coaching girls' football. She talks like a teammate, not a textbook.

Ewie in action
You

My U10 player seems less coordinated than she was last season. Should I be worried?

Ewie

Honestly? This sounds like a growth spurt, not a problem. Girls hit their peak height velocity around 11–12 — their bodies grow faster than their coordination can keep up. She needs patience and the right warm-up, not more pressure. Has she grown noticeably this season?

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Four books available now. More publishing throughout 2026. Start wherever your coaching is today — every book stands alone.

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